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Saturday, October 11, 2008

Can I Just Say One Thing? (Body Modifiers Should Read)

I found something.. its something I wrote a few months ago.. not necessarily a rant, but there are some interesting thoughts in here.. hope you enjoy..

 

AUTHOR'S NOTE: First, this isn't perfect. So shoot me. Second, I'll be surprised if anyone actually reads it all the way through.

 

Influence of Body Modification on Perception

            Body modification is practiced by many cultures for many different reasons. Regardless of whether or not people in Western cultures practice body modification to change society's perception of them, if often does. Because of this, it is important to consider some of the implications that follow an act of body modification. Changing your body can influence the way people view you and your abilities depending on the situation.

            According to the textbook Working in Groups, body modification, including tattoos and piercings, can create a negative perception of you, specifically in the workplace. In fact, 42 percent of people polled in a survey said that they viewed employees who had visible tattoos or piercings in a negative manner (135). Another study, mentioned on the website "The Influence of Tattoos on Peer Perception at Georgetown," supported these findings. The site refers to an experiment in which employers were asked to evaluate potential job applicants; both with body art and without. The job applicants with tattoos were "rated and ranked significantly lower" than the applicants without tattoos. For this reason, concealing body modification in a professional setting is important. There are some places it may be acceptable to reveal, or perhaps even "show off" your tattoo or piercing.

            Even in a professional setting, some body art may be normal. One example of this would be a tattoo or piercing parlor. If you are an employee of body modification parlor, it may even be a good idea to show off your taste in artwork in the form of a tattoo or a unique piercing because it will promote your service. Revealing body modification could also be acceptable if you are part of a professional group that wishes to maintain a certain persona. For example, employees working at "Hot Topic" are allowed, even encouraged, to display their body art. This exception could also include musical groups and stage performers. It all depends on what way the group wants to be perceived.

            Evidently, situation can play a part in the negative perception as well. A study testing the theory of the negative perception was done at Georgetown. According to the aforementioned website, the set up of the experiment was based around the interpretation of a poem. Three sets of subjects were given the same poem (that could be easily interpreted positively or negatively) and a list of questions to answer. The list included questions on the tone, content, rating, and a perceived description of the author of the poem. One set were given a photograph of the "author" with a tattoo, another set were given the photograph of the "author" without the tattoo, and the last group was only given the poem.

The study showed that there "was no significant difference between how photos with the tattoos were rated in comparison to those without the tattoo." The situation is significantly different than the situation in the other studies. First, the most obvious change is that of the less formal atmosphere. In a professional setting, it is important to look, well, professional. Outside of that setting, however, it is more acceptable to reveal body modification.

The author of the study also suggests that "tattoos can be associated with "artsy" people." It is mentioned that if it was a scientific article instead of a poem, the results could have been different. Of course, body modification easily fits the persona of an artist, but not one of a researcher or of a corporate employee.

The final conclusion about the neutral responses is something that the author only mentions briefly, but has a great influence on the results. When conducting an experiment, it is important to take into account the demographics of the subjects who participate in the study. While the author mentions gender when discussing the results, he/she never really addresses the issue of age except to say that the pool of subjects were formed from Georgetown students and therefore would not draw good conclusions about the rest of the population. The immediate issue is the fact that the subjects were college-aged students, who tend to be more accepting of deviant social behavior than the employers who participated in the previous mentioned study.

Another issue arises of generational differences. As the textbook mentions, "public perception may change as a younger generation of tattooed and pierced college graduates rises to leadership" (135). I realize that this study was done approximately five years ago, but people of that age were at the beginning of a new generation, of which tattoos and piercings are more widely accepted.

It also went on to mention that the ratings were slightly higher among the group that received no photograph than of those that receive one. The author of the study asserts that this difference could be due to the idea that judgments could have been made based on how young the artist was or based on her gender. Considering the fact that the subjects were the same age as the "author," and therefore should judge "her" based on the same standards as themselves, there are other factors that might have contributed to the results. Merely the fact that the subjects had a photograph to judge physical appearance of the "author" can change the results drastically. Our society is becoming more and more critical of how a person looks, and often judges them by that standard. This can be observed through an idea called "the halo effect," which basically says that people who are more attractive are more likely to be perceived as smarter (or otherwise better) than someone who is less attractive but of the same intelligence. Based on this idea, the subjects with the photographs could have made negative judgments based on her physical appearance beyond just her age or gender, as opposed to the subjects without a picture, who could construct whatever appearance they thought suited the "author."

Not only does body modification create a modified physical appearance, but it can create a modified attitude as well. This change can result from an array of reasons. First, especially when someone gets their first tattoo or piercing, they gain a new persona. It's almost as if the person now belongs to an exclusive group (no matter the size) of people who have experienced body modification. The person may have a "tough" attitude after they have endured the pain associated with body modification, or a "rebellious" attitude if they view the act as a way to rebel against their parents, other people, or society as a whole. Another change that can occur is an idea of a "new" beginning. The person changes their physical appearance to signify a change in their life. This can be as internal as a change in motivation or as external as the death of someone they loved.

My personal perception of body modification is skewed since I have experienced it myself. I think it can be a positive or negative thing, depending on the reasons you decided to do it. If you decide to get a tattoo to make your parents angry, rather than because it is something you personally want, than it could be a negative act. Body art is just like everything else in that sense. If you do it for the wrong reasons, it can be a bad thing, but if you do it for the right reasons, it can be a good thing

However, even though I have a piercing in my upper lip, there are still piercings that I view negatively. For example, there is no good way to wear your tongue pierced. In my opinion, it looks horrible (skanky) because it is linked with performing sexual favors. Not only that, but the person has to re-learn how to speak without a lisp, and in the meantime, can't be understood and slobber everywhere. Also, tattoos on the neck or face are just not appropriate. Tattoos that can easily be covered up, or are at least on the arm or hand are not too terrible. Also, I've heard the new trend is to tattoo on eyeliner. I suppose that would not be too appalling.

Even though in certain situations it is view in a negative light, body modification is act that will continue to be practiced far into the future, if not until the extinction of mankind. We can only speculation how people's perceptions of this act will change in the future. For now, it is important to consider the times and places that revealing body art is acceptable.


So, basically.. I Suck At Life

Wow,

  I can't believe how much of a loser I am. I swore I would never ditch xanga, especially not for myspace, but I guess that's pretty much what happened. Don't worry, if there is anyone out there still subscribed, anyone at all, I will dedicate myself to updating at least once a week from now on. But I can't promise I'll be as funny as I used to be.. I'm a lot less angry than I once was, but I guess I don't just have to blog rants. Oh well. I will work on remembering to rant more often, and def at least updating more often.

Everything is so different.. I need a minute to catch up.. I wonder if my blog will ever be the same?..

Here's my myspace btw http://myspace.com/beautifulwings


Tuesday, May 01, 2007

'Cause That's Just Who I Am This Week

Yes, so, I finally accomplished my goal for the year of bowling a game over 200. A 204 to be exact. Pretty exciting!

What is not exciting, however, is how my wonderful accomplishment was written up in the paper. "Don ********* was over HIS average every time, including a 204 game (86 over) during HIS second game."

First of all, there is definitely a I at the end of the DON! My name is DONI. I know its unusually for a girl to have such a boyish name, but seriously. It was written on the sheet "Doni," and I'm one the team roster as "Doni." I don't know why the senile old lady who writes up the article for the paper decided to change my name AND my sex, but I don't think she should have that power.

But seriously, I'm slightly irritated. Like, what male has as low of an average as I do? And nextly, when is it a big deal for a male to bowl a 200? Really its not. I know I probably should sexist, but, at least around here, females' averages are lower than males' and its usually nothing to make a big deal about when a male bowls a 200, it usually happens AT LEAST three times on any league.

I demand the recognition I deserve! It was my first fucking 200 game.

And I really don't appreciate my name being changed, but the thing that bothers me most is that apparently I'm a male.


Wednesday, April 11, 2007

The Shit People Sell! No Wait, The Shit People Buy!

So on Monday, I'm sitting at the counter during league, waiting for my pop to be refilled. I start flipping through this random magazine and see this:

Waist Extender (E4594)

Adds up to 5" to waist bands of jeans, pants, skirts. Here is a quick way to loosen clothing if you have added a few inches around the middle. Moisten your garment's waistband, insert the extender and adjust to desired size. When garment dries, it remains stretched until the next washing. No more costly tailoring. Can be repeated without harming clothing. Extends to fit garments with waist sizes 26" to 56".
  • $9.98
  • 2 for
    $18.50

Ok, seriously, WTF?

First of all, this product is enabling more people to become overweight. Who cares if you "add a few inches around the middle," you can always add a few inches to your clothes. Of course I'll eat 5 pieces of apple pie for desert; I just bought a waist extender!

What a load of shit. Here's a hint: If you find yourself gaining fatty pounds (I don't put it quite as nice as the ad) start exercising a little more, maybe eat carrots instead of potato chips, drink diet soda instead of regular. If all else fails,  stop being cheap and buy yourself a new fucking pair of jeans.

Furthermore, how deceitful! Of course I can wear a size 3, all I have to do is get out my handy waist extender and add 5 inches. Tada! Ridiculous. Who would actually pay for 10 bucks this shit? And why would you need more than one??? It's not even permanent! You have to use it every time you wash your clothes.

And besides, chances are that if you've gained weight around your waist, you've also gained weight around your thighs and your ass to. Are you going to sell me a thigh extender and an ass extender as well?

I don't understand. 

Look at me! I have something to rant about! Yes!

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By The Offspring
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Wednesday, November 08, 2006

And I Don't Give A Damn About My Bad Reputation

 Yay for having something to bitch about.

Listen very carefully if you are my friend and wish to stay that way:

 

Believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see.

 

I’m so fucking sick of people and their mouths. Rumors are the devil. Whatever happened or didn’t happen is none of people’s fucking business and I really don’t appreciate people digging to find out whatever they think they know. Period. If I’ve told you something than that is it. Leave it at that. This doesn’t necessarily pertain to the specific incident I’m currently pissed about but: If I wanted you to know I would’ve told you. That goes for anything. And if you want to know something, come to me and ask me. I’ll either tell you what you want to know or tell you to fuck off because people need to mind their own business. Whether I did or didn’t doesn’t matter.

 

I’m so sick of people around here thinking that they need to know everything about everyone. Rumors are just that: RUMORS, and if you believe everything you hear than you’re not exactly the smartest tool in the shed.

 

Also this matter has been discussed way more than it should be. Its over and done. Its been that way. I dunno why its being brought up now.

 

Sorry if this has nothing to do with some of you, but take to heart the warning at the beginning of my post.

 

On the bright side...It's raining.

 

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Bad Reputation
By Joan Jett & The Blackhearts
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